{"id":902,"date":"2023-07-06T09:09:02","date_gmt":"2023-07-06T09:09:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/2016\/08\/06\/karar-vermek-icin-acele-etmeyin\/"},"modified":"2023-07-15T09:45:06","modified_gmt":"2023-07-15T09:45:06","slug":"karar-vermek-icin-acele-etmeyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/karar-vermek-icin-acele-etmeyin\/","title":{"rendered":"Karar vermek i\u00e7in acele etmeyin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Verdana;\">Karar vermek i\u00e7in acele etmeyin<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lao Tzu bu \u00f6yk\u00fcy\u00fc \u00e7ok sever, anlat\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. K\u00f6y\u00fcn birinde bir ya\u015fl\u0131 adam varm\u0131\u015f. \u00c7ok fakir. Ama kral bile onu k\u0131skan\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6yle dillere destan bir beyaz at\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f ki. Kral at i\u00e7in ihtiyara neredeyse hazinesinin tamam\u0131n\u0131 teklif etmi\u015f ama adam satmaya yana\u015fmam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Bu at, bir at de\u011fil benim i\u00e7in.. Bir dost. \u0130nsan dostunu satar m\u0131? dermi\u015f hep. Bir sabah kalkm\u0131\u015flar ki, at yok.. K\u00f6yl\u00fc ihtiyar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na toplanm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cSeni ihtiyar bunak.. Bu at\u0131 sana b\u0131rakmayacaklar\u0131, \u00e7alacaklar\u0131 belliydi. Krala satsayd\u0131n, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kadar beyler gibi ya\u015fard\u0131n. \u015eimdi ne paran var, ne de at\u0131n\u201d demi\u015fler. \u0130htiyar:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cKarar vermek i\u00e7in acele etmeyin\u201d demi\u015f.. Sadece \u201cAt kay\u0131p\u201d deyin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek bu. Ondan \u00f6tesi sizin yorumunuz ve verdi\u011finiz karar. At\u0131m\u0131n kaybolmas\u0131, bir talihsizlik mi, yoksa bir \u015fans m\u0131, bunu hen\u00fcz bilmiyoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu olay hen\u00fcz bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7. Arkas\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l gelece\u011fini kimse bilemez.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6yl\u00fcler ihtiyar buna\u011fa kahkahalarla g\u00fclm\u00fc\u015fler. Ama aradan 15 g\u00fcn ge\u00e7meden, at bir gece ans\u0131z\u0131n d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f.. Me\u011fer \u00e7al\u0131nmam\u0131\u015f, da\u011flara gitmi\u015f kendi kendine. D\u00f6nerken de, vadideki 12 vah\u015fi at\u0131 pe\u015fine takip getirmi\u015f. Bunu g\u00f6ren k\u00f6yl\u00fcler toplan\u0131p ihtiyardan \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cBabal\u0131k\u201d demi\u015fler. \u201cSen hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131n. At\u0131n\u0131n kaybolmas\u0131 bir talihsizlik de\u011fil adeta bir devlet ku\u015fu oldu senin i\u00e7in. \u015eimdi bir at s\u00fcr\u00fcn var.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cKarar vermek i\u00e7in gene acele ediyorsunuz\u201d demi\u015f ihtiyar. Sadece at\u0131n geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6yleyin. Bilinen ger\u00e7ek sadece bu. Ondan \u00f6tesinin ne getirece\u011fini hen\u00fcz bilmiyoruz. Bu daha ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7. Birinci c\u00fcmlenin birinci kelimesini okur okumaz kitap hakk\u0131nda nas\u0131l fikir y\u00fcr\u00fctebilirsiniz?.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6yl\u00fcler bu defa ihtiyarla dalga ge\u00e7memi\u015fler a\u00e7\u0131ktan ama, i\u00e7lerinden \u201cBu herif sahiden bunak\u201d diye ge\u00e7irmi\u015fler.. Bir hafta ge\u00e7meden, vah\u015fi atlar\u0131 terbiye etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ihtiyar\u0131n tek o\u011flu attan d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f ve aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Evin ge\u00e7imini temin eden o\u011ful \u015fimdi uzun zaman yatakta kalacakm\u0131\u015f. K\u00f6yl\u00fcler gene gelmi\u015fler ihtiyara.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cBir kez daha hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131n\u201d demi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cBu atlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden tek o\u011flun baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 uzun s\u00fcre kullanamayacak. Oysa sana bakacak ba\u015fkas\u0131 da yok.. \u015eimdi eskisinden daha fakir, daha zavall\u0131 olacaks\u0131n\u201d demi\u015fler. \u0130htiyar:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cSiz erken karar verme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na tutulmu\u015fsunuz\u201d diye cevap vermi\u015f.<\/p><div class=\"kanews-banner kanews-banner-single\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8343660164149527\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8343660164149527\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"5722160345\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cO kadar acele etmeyin. O\u011flum baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rd\u0131. Ger\u00e7ek bu.. \u00d6tesi sizin verdi\u011finiz karar. Ama acaba ne kadar do\u011fru. Hayat b\u00f6yle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck par\u00e7alar halinde gelir ve ondan sonra neler olaca\u011f\u0131 size asla bildirilmez.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Birka\u00e7 hafta sonra, d\u00fc\u015fmanlar kat kat b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ordu ile sald\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Kral son bir \u00fcmitle eli silah tutan b\u00fct\u00fcn gen\u00e7leri askere \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. K\u00f6ye gelen g\u00f6revliler, ihtiyar\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131k bacakl\u0131 o\u011flu d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn gen\u00e7leri askere alm\u0131\u015flar. K\u00f6y\u00fc matem sarm\u0131\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sava\u015f\u0131n kazan\u0131lmas\u0131na imkan yokmu\u015f, giden gen\u00e7lerin ya \u00f6lece\u011fini ya esir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp k\u00f6le diye sat\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 herkes biliyormu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6yl\u00fcler, gene ihtiyara gelmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cGene hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fun kan\u0131tland\u0131\u201d demi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cO\u011flunun baca\u011f\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131k, ama hi\u00e7 de\u011filse yan\u0131nda. Oysa bizimkiler belki asla k\u00f6ye d\u00f6nemeyecekler. O\u011flunun baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, talihsizlik de\u011fil, \u015fansm\u0131\u015f me\u011fer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cSiz erken karar vermeye devam edin\u201d demi\u015f, \u0130htiyar. Oysa ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kimseler bilemez. Bilinen bir tek ger\u00e7ek var. Benim o\u011flum yan\u0131mda, sizinkiler askerde. Ama bunlar\u0131n hangisinin talih, hangisinin \u015fanss\u0131zl\u0131k oldu\u011funu sadece Allah biliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Lao Tzu, \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc su nasihatla tamamlarm\u0131\u015f, etraf\u0131na anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201cAcele karar vermeyin. O zaman sizin de herkesten fark\u0131n\u0131z kalmaz. Hayat\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir par\u00e7as\u0131na bak\u0131p tamam\u0131 hakk\u0131nda karar vermekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n. Karar akl\u0131n durmas\u0131 halidir. Karar verdiniz mi, ak\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi, dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile geli\u015fmeyi durdurur. Buna ra\u011fmen ak\u0131l insan\u0131 daima karara zorlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geli\u015fme halinde olmak tehlikelidir ve insan\u0131 huzursuz yapar. Oysa gezi asla sona ermez. Bir yol biterken yenisi ba\u015flar. Bir kap\u0131 kapan\u0131rken, ba\u015fkas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Bir hedefe ula\u015f\u0131rsan\u0131z ve daha y\u00fcksek bir hedefin hemen orac\u0131kta oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Karar vermek i\u00e7in acele etmeyin Lao Tzu bu \u00f6yk\u00fcy\u00fc \u00e7ok sever, anlat\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. K\u00f6y\u00fcn birinde bir ya\u015fl\u0131 adam varm\u0131\u015f. \u00c7ok fakir.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":903,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,16,27,5,14,52,12,74],"tags":[],"manset":[],"class_list":["post-902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dostluk-hikayeleri","category-guzel-hikayeler","category-hosgoru-hikayeleri","category-ibretlik-hikayeler","category-ilginc-hikayeler","category-ilim-hikayeleri","category-nasihat-hikayeleri","category-tevazu-hikayeleri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=902"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1930,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902\/revisions\/1930"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=902"},{"taxonomy":"manset","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/manset?post=902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}