{"id":149,"date":"2016-04-13T08:40:48","date_gmt":"2016-04-13T08:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/2016\/04\/13\/kocasini-sikayet-eden-kadin\/"},"modified":"2016-04-13T08:40:48","modified_gmt":"2016-04-13T08:40:48","slug":"kocasini-sikayet-eden-kadin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/kocasini-sikayet-eden-kadin\/","title":{"rendered":"Kocas\u0131n\u0131 \u015eikayet Eden Kad\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Sizlere bu b\u00f6l\u00fcmde Evlilik ile ilgili hikaye, Evlilik hakk\u0131nda hikaye, Evlilik hikayesi aktarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u00c7ok ibretlik bu Evlilik hikayesinden nasiplenmeniz dileklerimizle.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h1><strong>Evlilik Hikayesi, dini hikaye<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><strong>Kocas\u0131n\u0131 \u015eikayet Eden Kad\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n\u0131n biri, bir g\u00fcn Halife \u00d6mer r.a.&#8217;a gelerek dedi ki:<br \/>\n&#8211; Ey m\u00fcminlerin emiri sana insanlar\u0131n en iyisini \u015fikayete geldim. \u00d6yle birisi ki, amelde onu ge\u00e7en veya onun kadar amel eden kimse pek azd\u0131r. Geceleri sabaha kadar namaz k\u0131lar, g\u00fcnd\u00fczleri de hep oru\u00e7la ge\u00e7irir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zlerden sonra utanc\u0131ndan as\u0131l demek istedi\u011fini diyemedi ve:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ey m\u00fcminlerin emiri , beni ba\u011f\u0131\u015fla, diyerek \u00e7ekildi.<\/p>\n<p>Hz. \u00d6mer:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u0130yi iyi , Allah senden raz\u0131 olsun. Sen adam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel halleriyle \u00f6vd\u00fcn; art\u0131k onun hakk\u0131nda fazla bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemen de gerekmez, dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p gittikten sonra, orada haz\u0131r bulunan sahabi Kaab b. S\u00fbr r.a. dedi ki:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ey m\u00fcminlerin emiri, kad\u0131n utan\u0131p as\u0131l \u015fikayetini sana s\u00f6yleyemedi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Kad\u0131n\u0131n ne \u015fikayeti varm\u0131\u015f ki?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Kad\u0131n kocas\u0131ndan, kocal\u0131k vazifelerini yerine getirmiyor diye \u015fikayette bulunuyor, fakat bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6yleyemiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Hz. \u00d6mer kad\u0131n\u0131 geri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Kocas\u0131na da haber g\u00f6nderip yan\u0131na getirtti. Sonra Kaab b. S\u00fbr&#8217;a :<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Bunlar aras\u0131nda sen hakemlik et, diye teklif etti. Kaab :<\/p><div class=\"kanews-banner kanews-banner-single\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8343660164149527\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8343660164149527\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"5722160345\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>&#8211; Sen buradayken ben nas\u0131l hakemlik yapabilirim, dedi. Hz. \u00d6mer r.a .:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Benim anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m inceli\u011fi sen anlad\u0131n. Bunun i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 dinleyip aralar\u0131nda gereken h\u00fckm\u00fc vermek de senin hakk\u0131nd\u0131r, dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Bunun \u00fczerine Kaab o adama dedi ki:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Allah Teal\u00e2 erkeklere hitaben: \u201cSizin i\u00e7in helal ve ho\u015f olan kad\u0131nlardan iki\u015fer, \u00fc\u00e7er ve d\u00f6rder olarak nikahlay\u0131n\u201d (Nis\u00e2, 3) diye buyurdu\u011funa g\u00f6re, en \u00e7ok \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn pe\u015fpe\u015fe oru\u00e7 tutabilirsin; d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fc tutmamaman gerekir. En \u00e7ok da \u00fc\u00e7 sabaha kadar ibadet edebilirsin; d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc gece e\u015finle beraber olmal\u0131s\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Hz. \u00d6mer r.a. Kaab&#8217;\u0131n bu ince anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 be\u011fendi ve:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Senin bu bulu\u015fun \u00f6teki bulu\u015fundan da g\u00fczelmi\u015f, dedi. Bu isabetli h\u00fckm\u00fc \u00e7ok be\u011fenen halife onu Basra kad\u0131s\u0131 yapt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nca\u011f\u0131z \u015fikayetinde: \u201cKocam geceleri hep ibadet eder, g\u00fcnd\u00fczleri oru\u00e7 tutar\u201d deyince, maksad\u0131 farketmeyen Hz. \u00d6mer: \u201cKocan\u0131 bunlardan men mi edeyim?\u201d demi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Kaynak: \u0130bn Saad , et- Tabak\u00e2t\u00fc&#8217;l &#8211; Keb\u00eer , 9\/91.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sizlere bu b\u00f6l\u00fcmde Evlilik ile ilgili hikaye, Evlilik hakk\u0131nda hikaye, Evlilik hikayesi aktarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u00c7ok ibretlik bu Evlilik hikayesinden nasiplenmeniz&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":150,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,15,6],"tags":[],"manset":[],"class_list":["post-149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dini-hikayeler","category-evlilik-hikayeleri","category-sahabi-kissalari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/149","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=149"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/149\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=149"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=149"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=149"},{"taxonomy":"manset","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dostkelimeler.com\/hikaye\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/manset?post=149"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}